Writers Note: The following is a special guest post as written by David Lewellyn, Student Ministries Pastor at Life Center Foursquare Church in Spokane, Washington. I am extremely grateful to David for his willingness to participate. His insights are humorous and thought-provoking as we continue to discover pictures of God in our lives.
Several years ago, I was invited by Bobby, a mentor and friend, to attend a college basketball game. At the game, I sat on one end of our group and Bobby sat on the other. Bobby's young son chose to sit next to me. Sitting on my other side was someone I did not know. Someone large and imposing. Someone loud. Someone creative. I went to public school, so I feel like I know my fair share of creative words, but this guy seemed to have a deep well from which to draw in this area.
Loudly and aggressively, he hurled insults and expletives at referees, players, coaches, and fans alike. Unbeknownst to him, he was teaching me new words and creative combinations in which to use them. He was also teaching Bobby's young son. I knew I needed to say something, but I was nervous because he was much larger than me and clearly aggravated.
After practicing the request in my head, I spoke up.
"Excuse me, there are families with kids here. So would you be willing to use language more in line with a PG rating?"
Directing the furrowed brow of his aggravated face (still attached to his excessively large frame) toward me, he snapped back, "Or else what?"
It was in that moment, as I attempted to retain the contents of my bladder, that I realized I hadn't thought through it that far.
I was hoping for a response more along the lines of, "I see the error of my ways and will adjust my attitude and actions to greater reflect the person I hope to be. Also, please tell me how to be a Christian...and do you want an ice cream cone?"
Unprepared for his actual response, I was speechless, hoping not to be beat to a pulp in front of my friend's son. My eyes began searching to see if anyone was seeing my peril. As I turned my head, I saw Bobby. Even better, Bobby saw me.
There is something you should know about Bobby: he is a very big and athletic guy--much bigger than my new found foe. He even played professional baseball for awhile. Knowing that Bobby was now attentive to my situation, I gained a new sense of boldness.
"I said, cool it on the swearing! There are kids who can hear you!" I jabbed back to him with my chest puffed in a show of confidence.
At this point the man noticed that he was being noticed (and by someone much larger than himself) and quickly became amiable. With a silent grumble, he grabbed his coat and left.
I spoke to the man twice, once nervously and once with boldness. What was the difference? Did I get bigger? Did he get smaller? No. The difference was not in my circumstance, it was in who was with me. The difference was Bobby.
As Christians, we don't need to live in fear. Not because of who we are, but because of who God is and in the fact that He is always with us.
God tells Joshua before sending him into battle, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." (Joshua 1:9 ESV)
Likewise, in some of Jesus' final words to his disciples before his ascension, he assures them, "...I am with you always, to the very end of the age." (Matthew 28:20 NIV)
Just as Bobby's presence gave me courage, our courage as Christians comes from the presence of God. No matter the difficulty of our circumstance. Be encouraged, be courageous, God is with you! Trust and rely on Him--and watch your language at basketball games or Bobby and I will find you.